Subtleties and basic rules of conduct at a party

Many people like to visit and have a good time there. However, how fun the pastime will be depends on both the host of the event and the guest. It is very important to be able to behave properly at a party, as well as to be a good host, who will provide interesting leisure for visiting friends. It is worth more to consider the various subtleties and basic rules of conduct at a party.

It can be said that modern etiquette greatly simplifies people's lives. It implies not so many mandatory rules that need to be followed by points - you can read them briefly. Before, etiquette envisaged even such subtleties as the length of a skirt, women's shoes and many other rules. All these prescriptions have little to do with today's recommendations on how to behave at a party.

It is especially important to know the rules of good behavior when you are going to visit unfamiliar people, because everyone wants to make a good impression on new friends. It is precisely for this reason that etiquette is invented: his knowledge will help you to feel more confident among new acquaintances, you will be able to avoid unpleasant situations. Etiquette dictates not only the rules of behavior of guests, but also the rules of their reception by the owners.

The culture of inviting and receiving guests is very important. First of all, it is the owner who sets the tone for the holiday in his house.

It should start with an invitation. It is important to remember that you need to invite guests a week before the appointed date, no later, so that it is more convenient for them to draw up their schedule, as well as prepare for your holiday. If someone can not come, you can not find out the reason for the person, as it may be too personal.

Very ugly it turns out when there are several girls and only one young man on a visit - and vice versa. Such events put in an awkward position not only the invited person, but also the owner himself. Such a guest has to spend more time than others so that he does not feel lonely.

If you invite friends for a birthday, Do not require a specific gift from them. Such requests look very ugly and can permanently spoil the impression about you.

When you, taking into account the basic rules of etiquette, invite guests, you will need to prepare for the holiday and learn how to properly accept them. In drawing up the menu, it is desirable to take into account the preferences of the invitees that you are aware of. Remember: if one of your buddies is allergic to one or another product, it is advisable to remove it from the list or warn the guest about its presence in one or another dish. However, this should be done in a whisper so that no one around you can hear.

In the event that the guest is familiar with everyone, you can safely go about your business; if not, then it is imperative to submit a novice - to prevent an awkward situation.

When more than half of the guests gather, you can offer them drinks or snacks. In the event that someone is strongly delayed, it should be no more than 15 minutes to wait for him, and then you can invite everyone to the table.

Meals are served strictly in turn: snacks should already be on the table, those who want to bring the first dish, and then the second (hot) dishes are put on the table.It is worth offering food to the eldest guest first: this attitude will show you as a host respecting his friends. It is considered not very beautiful to ask whether someone liked your dish or not. If it was to your taste, you will be told about it yourself.

Try to maintain a positive attitude among all those invited and suggest interesting topics for communication. Spend time with each friend and smile more often. Let your friends know that you are happy.

When you are going to an event, it is very important to think through certain details that will show you a responsible and well-mannered guest. After receiving the invitation, be sure to thank the host and let him know whether you will come or not. In the event that you still can not come, first call a friend and inform about it, so that he has time to invite someone else. In this case, it is not necessary to talk about the reason for your absence, just apologize.

Take care and purchase a gift, because coming to visit with empty hands is very impolite. If you go for a birthday, try to pick a gift so that it gives the birthday boy pleasure. If you are just invited for lunch or dinner, you can buy a box of chocolates and good wine. These universal gifts will be useful to any owner, and you thereby show your respect and gratitude for the invitation.

On a visit come on time. You can not be late or come too early, as this may put the host in an awkward position, who is not quite ready to receive. If you are late, it is advisable to notify you by phone and apologize.

As soon as you cross the threshold of someone else's house, you automatically become a guest. After that, you must behave according to the rules that are prescribed etiquette. You have certain requirements.

It is important to remember that you should not talk too much. You can not interrupt others or tell everyone about their problems. Try to keep with dignity and positively, no need to sit silently all evening and wait for you to be entertained by the owner. Respect the other person and listen carefully.

It is advisable not to forget about the time and leave the evening is not too late, as the owners will need to do much more to bring their house in order. Before leaving, be sure to thank them for their warm welcome, and the rest for a pleasant evening.

There are a lot of rules of conduct at the holiday table. It is not necessary to strictly adhere to all, especially when you are at a friendly dinner. However, there are basic norms that must always be considered in order to be a pleasant and polite person.

Do not reach for the desired dish across the table, it is better to ask your neighbor to give it to you. Never criticize the dish of the hostess, on the contrary - any praise will be pleasant to her. During the dialogue, try to turn to face your interlocutor and not eat at this time.

The cutlery should be held tightly enough. Bring it to your mouth very carefully so that food does not fall back onto the plate. The fork is held in the left hand and the knife in the right. After the meal, fold your appliances on the plate.

If you receive a call on a mobile phone, quietly apologize to the guests and leave the room.It is very improper to talk loudly, sitting at a table surrounded by guests.

Not only adults, but also children love to visit. As a rule, when visiting relatives, many take with them sons and daughters. In this case, you should first hold a conversation with the child and tell him about the rules of behavior at a party. In that case, if the baby is still naughty, you do not need to scold him for all - it is enough to make a remark in a whisper.

Another thing, if the child is going to go on a birthday to one of his classmates. In this case, certain etiquette rules will apply. Remember that you can not keep a child on a holiday if they do not expect him there. It is advisable to receive an invitation personally from the parent of the hero of the occasion.

Tell your child that he must greet his friend and his parents at the entrance to the house, and then give him a present. When he is approached with any proposal, the answer must be clear and polite. At the table should be neat and slowly.

You can’t beg the birthday boy to open his presents - and all the more you don’t have to do it yourself. Children should behave well-mannered and decent; very ugly loud shouting or rude. Jumping on beds, breaking toys and throwing pillows is also impossible.

When you pick up the children from the holiday, Be sure to thank the owners themselves and teach this little guests. Anyone will be pleased to hear gratitude.

There are a number of nuances regarding the behavior at the event. Consider the following:

• In no case do not come to visit without an invitation or without a prior call the day before the visit - even if the hosts at a meeting always tell you that they are waiting at any time, do not abuse other people's education.
• You can not go into other rooms without the permission of the owners themselves, as there may be a mess, and you will put people who have invited you in an awkward position.
• During the meal you can not put your elbows on the table or waving his arms. At best, you can spill a drink, at worst - hit your neighbor.
• You can not loudly chomp, chew with your mouth open and talk until you swallow food.
• Do not drink a lot of alcohol and do not force other guests to join you in terms of using such drinks.
• Even if you didn't like the dish, don't show your displeasure. Otherwise you can upset the hostess.
• Do not wait until all the guests disperse, do not linger. Do not ask for overnight.

Following the above tips is quite simple. A decent and educated person who is familiar with the rules of etiquette will always be a welcome guest.

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